Sext your spouse

Most of us know that not all orgasms are equally thrilling, satisfying, intense, or meaningful.  So just because you are having sex doesn't mean you're having meaningful sex or satisfying sex.  My good friend said she had sex with her husband one evening and then caught him masturbating later that night.  He told her something like: "It was good, it just wasn't enough."

So how do you make sex meaningful, intense, and satisfying?

You have to stimulate the mind and the body.  It's really that simple, and that's probably not new information for most of you, but you most likely don't do anything about it.  So my first suggestion is to sext your spouse.  A simple little "I've been thinking about your dick all day" will go a LOOOOOOOONG way to a more satisfying sex later.  And don't be afraid to send a sexy little picture of yourself.  Make it a tease, you're not a pornstar.

Here's one I sent to my man.

I think he appreciated it.

This might be a good first step for some of the more prudish couples out there, but you can definitely make sexting spicy.  Engage the mind when you can't really engage the body, and watch your sex life get a boost of fun.