Introduction

When my husband and I were engaged to be married, we heard a lot of the "say goodbye to your sex life" teasing that everyone hears, but we never thought it would apply to us.  While dating, our sex life was very low-key.  We had sex a few times, but we mostly tried to limit ourselves to oral sex (for whatever it's worth, that was our Christian compromise).

We got married in 2009 and at some point toward the end of our first year being married, we both recognized that our sex life was getting "boring."  I kept thinking to myself: "Is this what everyone was talking about?  Does sex always go downhill after marriage?"  But part of me is very stubborn, so I made it my personal crusade to end boring sex.  Once I ended it for my marriage, I decided to help others by starting this blog.  Someone once said variety is the spice of life, and I'll add that it's the spice of your sex life also!

So whether you are sexually adventurous or purely prude, come see how you can spice up your marriage and keep the sex exciting for years to come!