I heard about this from a coworker who said when her husband gets close to cumming he loves to get teased with minimal physical stimulation through his cumshot, but it needs to be a surprise. They call it a ruined cumshot because most guys like the touching to be aggressive as they cum.
Check out this Ruined Orgasm tumblr
It's a way to show sexual dominance so guys that are submissive in bed will probably appreciate it, but they might not enjoy it.
