My husband and I used to have a profile on two different "adult dating" (hook up) sites, and we'd check it once in a while to see what kinds of messages we got. We never used it to meet people. But those sites eventually filled up with too much junk so we stopped using them.
Since then, we have found that the most satisfying way to get those kinds of responses is on craigslist. We'll make an ad, put a picture of me on it, say something about me and what I "want" (all I really want is to see what people say when they reply). We ignore it for a day, then check the email the next night and have fun reading what the guys say and seeing the pictures they send. My husband likes to lick me while I read the emails. And when I'm ready, we have sexy sex!
If you like getting hit-on and would like to know what other people think about you sexually, you should try posting an ad on your local craigslist. Don't show your face! But make it sexy and see what kind of replies you get.
PS. Second place to craigslist is flickr, where you can post pictures and people can comment on them.
