Blindfold

Sensory deprivation can be a very easy way to add some spice to your married sex life.  My husband and I like using a blindfold.  I like having earplugs in also.  Closing off some of your senses leaves your mind focused on the touch, and lets your mind wander.


If you use a blindfold, consider also changing some of the ways you  typically do things in bed.  Use different angles, different positions, be less aggressive, be more aggressive, etc.