Anal sex

This whole blog is about encouraging you to try new things so your sex life never gets boring.  Some girls enjoy receiving anal sex.  I think the percentage is pretty low, but plenty of girls engage in anal sex for the sake of keeping things fresh, even if they don't really enjoy it.

I happen to hate anal sex, but my best friend is one of the ones who really enjoys it.  I've tried anal with my husband twice.  I didn't like it either time, but the idea of putting his dick somewhere new got him really excited and it opened us up to new ideas while making the evening pretty exciting.  So if you haven't tried it with your spouse, try it.

This is a video on how to prepare for anal sex.

Based on my experience and all the times I've talked to my friend about it, the key to anal sex is good preparation and lots of lube.  He should be licking your ass, fingering it gently, massaging it, using small toys to loosen you up, and making sure you're turned on before he even thinks about putting his dick in there.  The asshole is a muscle that we usually keep shut tight, so it must be relaxed before trying anal.

Please know that it's uncomfortable for 99% of women who try it the first time.  But try it and see if it's something you want to try more.