Edging

Edging is when you get close to your orgasm and carefully stay right at the "edge" of your orgasm without backing down or going over the edge.  It's a common practice for guys, but it also makes a woman's orgasm much more intense.

It's easier to stay on the edge if you're using a vibrator.  The Hitachi Magic Wand is my personal favorite.  Don't rush.  Get as close to your orgasm as possible and use the vibrator to stay there.  Try to stay there for a few minutes and then let yourself orgasm.  It takes a lot of self control but it's worth it!

Ruined cumshot

I heard about this from a coworker who said when her husband gets close to cumming he loves to get teased with minimal physical stimulation through his cumshot, but it needs to be a surprise.  They call it a ruined cumshot because most guys like the touching to be aggressive as they cum.

Check out this Ruined Orgasm tumblr

It's a way to show sexual dominance so guys that are submissive in bed will probably appreciate it, but they might not enjoy it. 

Happy ending

Every year for the past few years I've given my husband permission to get a sensual massage for his birthday.  Any of those shady looking massage parlors in a strip mall will give a guy a happy ending if he turns onto his back and offers the girl more money.  Sometimes he goes through with it and sometimes he doesn't, but it definitely keeps things exciting!

What I like about the massage parlors is the girls aren't cute and they do this all the time so I don't have to worry that there will be any emotional connection.  It's just an orgasm.  So if you're willing to let your man do something like this, it's a fun way to spice things up.

Masturbate together

My husband and I sometimes do a masturbation challenge.  It's basically a race.  No porn.  No talking.  No lube.  No toys.  Just me and him side by side masturbating. 

He always wins and then licks me until I cum, but we both love the competition.  So if you need a way to spice up your masturbating, try this.

Car sex

Everyone has got a little nasty in a car, but most of us stopped playing in the car after college.  But car sex is still very sexy!  The change of location, chance of getting caught, and throwback to high school are all pretty exciting.

So find a quiet street and fog up those windows!

Video chat

I love to show off, and we show off on video chat websites to keep things exciting in our sex life.  There are sites that will connect you with someone at random so you can see them and they can see you (chatroulette and omegle are the most popular) and there are sites where you can set-up a free account and let numerous people watch you (like chaturbate and cam4).

I like to keep my face out of the video, so I keep the camera on my breasts or pussy and we watch guys jerk off while they're watching me.  We do that for a little bit, watch a couple guys cum, then turn it off and have sex.

Deliveries

Add some spice to you married sex life by showing off for a stranger.  Whenever we order food to be delivered, my husband prepares me for the delivery guy.  Something sexy but not slutty.  A t-shirt with no bra underneath.  A sports bra with booty shorts.  Those are the most common.

It's just easy fun and it makes me feel sexy.

The only time I've ever answered the door naked was when we were house-sitting for a co-worker.  The guy had no idea what to do!  We paid him and he left.  I don't suggest answering the door naked at your own home, just in case the delivery guy wants to come back to see you.  Be careful, but try greeting the delivery guy in something sexy next time.